Celebrating The Season Of Hope, Love And Joy: How To Include Our Loved Ones Living With Memory Loss

Saturday, November 21, 2020

From the Desk of Sira Botes

Celebrating the season of hope, light and joy provides us an opportunity to connect with loved ones and each other. Known as a season of giving and receiving, it allows us to connect with others and share something of ourselves.

Allowing our persons living with dementia to partake in this ritual creates a sense of meaning and fulfilment.

They may not remember the actual festivity that they engaged in, or the purpose or outcome, but they will remember how the interaction made them feel. Encouraging engagement in meaningful seasonal activities, will allow our loved ones to feel included in the festivities. It provides a sense of purpose and helps them feel a connection to the here and now. Some ideas for caregivers to promote involvement:

  • Use a holiday calendar with highlights and activities- mark it off as you go
  • Schedule visits with family and friends at specific times on the calendar for loved one to look forward too (phone/Facetime/digital platform ex. Zoom, BlueJeans/ WhatsApp)
  • Schedule and host outdoor celebrations (spaced and masked as indicated)
  • Decorating activities (a tree/ a door/ a tabletop)
  • Make cards (simple holiday stamping is easy and fun)
  • Create simple gifts through a craft (creates a sense of purpose)
  • Sing along with seasonal music
  • Baking and cooking (for a loved one, as a gift, for a shelter or caregiver)
  • Creating small seasonal flower arrangements as a centerpiece or gift
  • Take a car trip to discover neighbors Christmas lights and décor with a to-go beverage
  • Attend religious services and celebrations even if virtually
  • Watch old holiday favorites (movies or TV)
  • Read old holiday favorites together
  • Use scents of the season in the home environment
  • Festive lights create a special touch

All and any of these activities may elicit emotions of joy or nostalgia. Supporting our loved ones through
these different seasonal emotions will be crucial especially this year. Acknowledge their feelings and
meet them where they are at with supportive language, gentle touch and encouragement. This will go a
long way in reaching their hearts and strengthening your relationship. Wishing you love, joy and peace
always.

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